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Stop, define, list, check

Turning an unfamiliar multi-step job into a checklist: stop, define the main task, list and map the steps, and check along the way.

Paper packet. Every task here also exists on screen, where it is checked automatically; answers written on paper are not assessed by Nydus. When you are back at a device, enter your answers there.

1. What you will learn

You will define an unfamiliar job in one sentence, list its steps with what must come before what, work back from a deadline to a start time, and check at each tick that you are still doing the job you planned.

2. Where this lesson starts

A routine card is for a job you do every day. Some jobs come once a month or once a year: returning a parcel, hosting a lunch, getting the house ready for a repair. They have many steps, no habit behind them, and plenty of chances to wander off. You have already planned a week; this lesson plans a single job inside it. The jobs are invented. This is optional practice alongside your own care, not treatment and not a measure of recovery. If anything about your memory, speech, energy or thinking is new or changing, tell your own clinicians.

3. Words this lesson uses

TermWhat it means
Main taskThe whole job in one sentence, such as mail the return before noon.
Goal neglectKnowing the goal but letting it stop steering what you do.
DriftSliding from the main task into a side task, usually a useful one.
Must come beforeA link between two steps where the second cannot start until the first is done.
Working backCounting back from a deadline through the steps' minutes to find the start time.
Goal Management TrainingA clinician-led program built on the stop, define, list, learn, check cycle.

4. A stop-and-check card

The support is a card with five prompts, kept where bigger jobs start, such as the kitchen table or the desk:

STOP — what am I doing? DEFINE — the main task, in one sentence. LIST — the steps, numbered. LEARN — read the steps through once. CHECK — am I still doing what I planned?

Under the prompts goes the job's own list, with a box for each tick, so the card becomes the checklist for that one job.

5. Stop, define, list, check

The usual trouble with an unfamiliar job is not forgetting it. It is drifting: setting out to mail a package, going to the closet for tape, and an hour later having a tidy closet and an unsealed box. Researchers call this goal neglect: the goal is still known, and it stops steering what you do.

Levine and colleagues (2000) built a training program around it, Goal Management Training, for people who had trouble organizing tasks after a brain injury. Its core is a short cycle: stop what you are doing, define the main task, list the steps, learn them, and check that what you are doing matches the plan, going back to stop whenever it does not. A 2019 meta-analysis (Stamenova and Levine) found small to moderate improvements after the program, including on ratings of everyday activities, that were usually maintained at follow-up. The full program is a series of sessions led by a clinician. This lesson is not that program; it borrows the card.

One more idea makes the list work: some steps must come before others. Mapping those links before starting shows which step goes first, which can wait, and how early the job has to begin to be done in time.

Another way: picture

A driver with a map pulls over now and then to read it. Stopping costs a minute. Driving an hour the wrong way costs more. The stop-and-check card is the pull-over spot built into the job.

Another way: steps

  1. Stop, and say what you are doing.
  2. Write the main task in one sentence.
  3. List the steps and mark what must come before what.
  4. Read the list through once.
  5. At each tick, check: still the plan? If not, back to 1.

6. What drift looks like, and when to check

Drift nearly always starts with something useful. Looking for tape, you find the closet is a mess. Setting the table, you notice a spot on the cloth and start the laundry. Nothing about the side task feels like a mistake, which is why a fixed moment to check helps.

Good moments to check are the ticks themselves, doorways (entering a room is a natural pause), and any moment you notice your hands doing something that is not on the list. When the answer to am I doing what I planned? is no, write the side task on a note for later, find the last tick, and go on from there.

7. Mapping what must come first, and working back

For each step, ask one question: what must already be done before this can start? The answers make a map:

StepMust be done first
start the return onlinenothing
print the labelstart the return
pack the itemstart the return
seal the box, tape on the labelprint the label, pack the item
drop it at the shipping storeseal the box

When a job has a deadline, add up the minutes of the steps done one after another and count back from the deadline. A lunch at 12:30 whose steps take 65 minutes starts by 11:25, and that start time goes on the card as a cue.

8. A pause that saved lives in operating rooms

In 2007 and 2008, the World Health Organization tested a 19-item Surgical Safety Checklist in eight hospitals in eight cities, including Seattle, Toronto, London and New Delhi. The checklist is built around three pauses: before anesthesia, before the first incision (a time out where the team stops and confirms the patient, the procedure and the plan) and before the patient leaves the room. Haynes and colleagues (2009) reported that deaths fell from 1.5% of patients before the checklist to 0.8% after, and complications from 11.0% to 7.0%.

Skilled teams did not need reminding what surgery was; they needed a fixed moment to stop and check. The same pause helps at home. Ada, a fictional host, writes lunch for four at 12:30 on her card, lists four steps totalling 65 minutes, and writes start 11:25. At each tick she asks: still the lunch? When she catches herself re-potting a plant at 11:50, the card sends her back to the soup.

9. Why stopping is not a waste of time

Stopping to check slows me down. A check takes seconds; drift can take the afternoon.

One check at the end is enough. By the end it is too late to put right. The check belongs at every tick and every doorway.

Side tasks mean I have failed at the job. They are ordinary. Write them on a note, and they are saved for later instead of lost or obeyed.

10. Returning an online order

  1. Stop and define the main task.

    Main task: return the boots to the store by mail before Friday.

    One sentence with a deadline gives every later step something to be checked against.

  2. List the steps.

    1 start the return online · 2 print the label · 3 pack the boots · 4 seal and label the box · 5 drop it at the shipping store

    Each step is one action a watcher could tick.

  3. Mark what must come before what.

    start → print · start → pack · print and pack → seal · seal → drop off

    Printing and packing both wait on the website, but not on each other.

  4. Read the list once and set the check points.

    Check at each tick and at the front door: still the boots?

    The front door is where drift to other errands usually starts.

11. Working back from a lunch at 12:30

  1. Define the main task.

    Lunch for four, on the table at 12:30.

    The deadline is part of the task.

  2. List the steps with their minutes.

    check the list 10 · chop the salad 20 · heat the soup 25 · set the table 10

    Minutes from past experience, rounded up, are enough.

  3. Add the minutes of the steps.

    10 + 20 + 25 + 10 → 65 minutes

    Steps done one after another add up.

  4. Count back from the deadline and write the start on the card.

    12:30 − 65 minutes → 11:25 · card: start 11:25

    The start time becomes the cue that begins the job.

12. Your turn: mailing a birthday present

  1. Define the main task.

    Mail a birthday present to Maya by Friday.

    The deadline is part of the sentence.

  2. List the steps in the order each needs the last.

    1 buy · 2 wrap · 3 address the parcel · 4 mail it

    Each step can only start when the one before is done.

  3. Your turn: work this step out. Its working is at the end of the packet.

    Set the check points.

13. Guided practice

Put the five stages of the stop-and-check card in order.

Number the steps in order (write the number in the box):

14. Guided practice

Ray's fictional card for the job *Get the spare room ready for Saturday's guest* lists six steps. He has ticked the first four when he notices he is reading old letters from the dresser. Complete his check.

  1. Stop and say the main task.

    Get the spare room ready for Saturday's guest.

    Saying the goal shows at once that the letters are not part of it.

  2. Find the last tick on the list.

    ticks on the first four steps → last tick: step a

    The list, not memory, shows how far the job has got.

  3. Count the steps still to do.

    six steps listed minus the ticked ones → b steps left

    Knowing how much is left makes going back to the job an easy choice.

  4. Park the side task and restart the list.

    letters → a note for Sunday · go on to the next unticked step

    The side task is written down, so nothing is lost by leaving it.

15. Guided practice

Tom's fictional morning had one job: mail the return package before the post office closes at noon. Select the sentence where the job was lost.

This task has no paper form; do it on a device.

16. Practice

Returning a fictional online order. Join each step to the step that cannot start until it is done.

This task has no paper form; do it on a device.

17. Practice

Ada's fictional lunch for four is at 12:30. Done one after another, her steps take: check the list 10 minutes, chop the salad 20, heat the soup 25, set the table 10. How many minutes do they take, and at what time must she start?

The steps take a minutes. Start at b:c.

18. Practice

Here are five lines from June's fictional stop-and-check card for getting a document copied at the library. Name the stage each line belongs to.

Stage
Hands off the keyboard: what am I doing?
Get two copies of the lease made at the library today.
1. Lease in the folder. 2. Coins for the copier. 3. Walk to the library.
Read the three steps aloud once.
At the library door: am I still doing what I planned?

19. Somewhere new

Lou has a fictional furnace inspection on Thursday morning. Join each step of getting ready to the step that cannot start until it is done.

This task has no paper form; do it on a device.

20. Lesson test

Lesson test: one question per skill, one attempt each, no hints. Your answers are checked when you submit.

21. Test question

Main task: *mail a birthday present to Maya by Friday.* For each step, choose the step it needs first, and number the checklist.

Needs firstChecklist number
Mail it at the post office
Buy the present
Address the parcel
Wrap it

22. What you can do now

Make a stop-and-check card and use it for the next job that is not part of your usual routine. Next: getting back into a routine after it breaks. This is optional practice alongside your own care, not treatment and not a measure of recovery. If anything about your memory, speech, energy or thinking is new or changing, tell your own clinicians. You can stop at any point: close the page, and it reopens where you left it.

Working for the steps left to you

12. Your turn: mailing a birthday present, step 3

Check at each tick and at the post office door: still Maya's present?

A fixed check catches drift before it costs the deadline.